They started a new medicine yesterday (Dasatinib) that fights the Leukemia but has the side effect of retaining fluid. He gained five pounds last night. They gave him Lasix to make him go to the bathroom every 20-30 minutes. But he was so dizzy and his blood pressure goes low and his heart races that they are trying a motion sickness patch that goes behind his ear. I hope it helps. He has been so nauseated all day that this night time nurse is trying some new options. We are hopeful.
Because of the extra fluid they did a chest X-ray to make sure no fluid are in the lungs. It came out clean! He is taking 14 different medicines to prevent ulcers, decrease uric acid, irritable bowel med, anti-biodics to prevent infections, anti-virals, a Leukemia medicine, and a type of Chemo, etc. Once he gets these then they just monitor everything else and adjust by giving pain medication and nausea meds, etc.
His white blood cell count is 127,000 today so it's going down. His platelets are low and so he is at a very high risk for bleeding. They are watching him very closely but think by tomorrow he will have a platelet transfusion.
We found out that if this new drug (Dasatinib) works (which is only temporary and works in 30-40% of people) then he can come home for about a month and be able to function normally. Then they will prepare for the bone marrow transplant and afterwards stay in the hospital around 6 weeks. Then it will take around 1 year to recover. They said he could go outside but not in any confined spaces with lots of people. His immune system is so low he WILL have problems if he doesn’t obey orders. Bishop Fivas came to see us today and to give me a blessing. After learning Van could go outside he said, Hey buddy, we will just have to take your son Josh, age 5, and go on scooter rides in the mountains all the time while you are getting better. He has such faith and hope that Van will get better, it is contagious!
If you have known Van, even as a little child, he had to have his hair just right. Each day he has asked me to fix his hair or get him a BYU baseball hat so he won't have bed head. Yesterday he came to and said he had a great idea. He asked our daughter Nicole (who is a cosmetologist) to come and buzz his head to 1/2 inch. She came last night and he is so happy with his hair because he doesn't have to worry about it anymore. He looks so handsome. I should have been doing this all along.
Van isn’t allowed off the 8th floor of the hospital because of infection, etc. They offer a 30 minute Sacrament Meeting downstairs to the rest of the patients but since we couldn’t go they were able to bring the Sacrament to our room. The minute the Priesthood holders stepped into the room the spirit was sooooo strong. Tears just streamed as they read the Sacrament Prayers which brought a whole new perspective. That was definitely a bonus for us today.
Bishop Fivas came today and taught us the gospel. He read Mosiah 24:14. “And I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you cannot feel them upon your backs, even while you are in bondage; and this will I do that ye may stand as witnesses for me hereafter, and that ye may know of a surety that I, the Lord God, do visit my people in their afflictions. This was such a comfort to Van tonight because today was a day of suffering. “
Thanks for all the e-mails, calls, blog posts, and everything you are doing to help my family. I couldn’t ask for better family or friends. We love you!
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Wendy, we are praying for you. You and Van have been such a positive in our lives that I am sure this will be just another way for you to reach out to and understand others.
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I'm sure you look great with your buzz cut! Let's figure out how to dye it dark blue and maybe next time Nicole can etch BYU in the back :)Don't torture the nurses any more than you have to! Keep smiling!
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President and Sister Heder,
ReplyDeleteWe fasted and prayed for you yesterday, and you're in my daily prayers. You've both been so positive and I'm so greatful for your service. Faith will get you through. Love, Byron & Shannon Christensen and Shayna Mayoh (seminary) Eastridge ward
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Hi sis,
ReplyDeleteThat is nice the Nicole came and gave him a hair cut. We keep you all in our prayers.
How was the visit with Lance and Rachel. I hope it was nice.
I sure love you and your family.
Jason, Nicole and family
Van and Wendy,
ReplyDeleteOur prayers are with you and your family.
We love you,
Mark and Tamee Hutchins
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteKyle and Paula Anderson
Hi Wendy and Van,
ReplyDeleteI just wanted you both to know how much I love you. You are in every single prayer that our family makes.
Wendy, I was wondering if Van would like it if I were to come and read to him or something? I could come once or twice a week...Is there a book that he would like me to read?
I love you both so much.
Justin
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep the faith and the Lord will do the rest. Thanks for being strong and amazing people.
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Phil and Karen Ware
Wow, that is a powerful message in a scripture by your Bishop Fivas! We are sure your family is also a strength to your ward.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Ronna and Brent Larsen
How wonderful that you were able to have the Sacrament brought up, and a special lesson from your Bishop...as you have blessed so many others, now it is your turn to receive, and there are so many, many people that will want to give.
ReplyDeleteThe "buzz" looks great, Van--but then, you always were the most handsome cousin of them all! =)
You're in our family's prayers and thoughts ALWAYS--and I'd love to come and "spell" Nancy if that's something you'd like, Van?
Love and HUGS to you both,
Libby
I was so sad when I heard the news. Please know that your family is in our prayers. We hope that all goes well and Van is feeling better soon. When you get home please let me know if you need any nursing help. I enjoyed you blog Wendy. It really touched my heart and has reminded me that faith can see us through anything.
ReplyDeleteThe Chandler Family
My thoughts and prayers are with your family! I hope for a speedy recovery!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your thoughts and prayers. It brings a smile to Van when we read your comments.
ReplyDeleteHi, Van and Wendy!
ReplyDeleteI just found your blog today and have been sitting here smiling through my tears. My heart aches for you, but you are incredibly upbeat and positive and I would have estimated no less from you. :) I have always felt that because challenges bring us closer to Heavenly Father that he reserves the greatest trials for the ones he wants to keep the closest. :) I am so glad that you are where you can get help and I will continue to pray that the Lord will watch over you in such a way that you can feel Him every day. We send many hugs and much love!
Love,
Diana and Geoff, and the kids: Becca, Emily, Gracie, Landon and Ethan (3 months)